The woman in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts
as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do; one, who has dreams and aspirations
just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister
haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no
special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much
as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and
that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at
the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never
ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she
doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her;
and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too
demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her
workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put
all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary
competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply because
you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours,
are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust
her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in
your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this..
Please appreciate “HER”
I hope you will do....
